You know what your dream relationship would look like —
but instead you’re stuck in a constant cycle of anxiety, frustration, and shame.
You’re exhausted with feeling like your partner is never giving you enough.
Or maybe you just got out of a tumultuous relationship and you want to make sure that never happens again.
You’re sick and tired of constantly putting your partner’s needs before your own.
You’re frustrated and frozen, with no idea how to make the relationship better — and every time you try, it just seems to make things worse.
You’re trying hard to “save” the relationship, but it feels like you’re the only one.
You find yourself thinking that you should just break it off and find another partner… but you have a feeling that if you did, the same vicious cycle would start again.
You’ve tried some “quick fixes” and none of them work.
You’re tired of feeling like a crazy person when you’re in a wave of relationship anxiety.
Your current relationship dynamic isn’t working, and something has to give.
If you want a stable relationship built on love, compassion, and understanding, first you need to do the deep inner work to heal your core wounds.
Trying to figure everything out alone will only leave you feeling lonely, undesirable, and stuck.
There’s a proven way to get the relationship of your dreams. And it starts with you.
It starts with allowing yourself to feel full self-compassion, acceptance, and love without the shame, guilt, and remorse that most women feel around anxious attachment.
I created WORK THE WAVES to share my tried-and-true method to heal anxious attachment and get the life you want.
At the core of the system is my signature framework, a first aid kit of tools that you can use for the rest of your life, and a supportive sisterhood of women just like you.
This isn’t just “another quick fix.”
This is a life-changing approach to doing the deep core work that you have to do if you want to heal your anxious attachment and get the relationship of your dreams.
Listen, I know a lot of experts are telling you that you can’t heal anxious attachment.
But guess what?
You Can.
I know because I’ve done it myself, and I’ve helped hundreds of other women do it, too.
No matter what your partner is doing (or not doing) to impact the relationship, when you start working on your anxious attachment, your relationship will change big time.
Whether you’re currently in a relationship, you just got out of one, or you want to start dating again in the future.
When you stop telling yourself that change isn’t possible, or that it’s your partner’s job to shift the relationship dynamic…
You will finally be able to have the relationship you want!
Stop focusing on stuff that isn’t helping you live a happier, more fulfilling life and give yourself the gift of committing to my proven framework.
…is the only group coaching program to support women on a journey of understanding and managing anxious attachment.
The best part is, when you join, you won’t be in it alone anymore. You’ll be part of a supportive sisterhood of other women who understand what you’re feeling because they’ve been there before — and we’re all there to help one another on our journeys.
WORK THE WAVES is a 12-week online program that teaches you the specific steps you need to take to heal your anxious attachment, all in a loving, compassionate, non-judgemental container where you’ll have access to attachment style experts (me!) and a supportive community.
You know what you want your relationship to look like. Here’s the first step to making that happen.
You’ll learn exactly how to...
Finally have a balanced relationship where both you and your partner’s needs are being met
Develop new a understanding of what it means to accept and love yourself
Normalize your experience and no longer feel “alone”
Learn a toolkit to get you through an anxiety wave of any size
Have access to a community of other women who struggle with anxious attachment and know exactly how you feel
Change your relationship to love and to yourself, forever
Basically…
When you join Work the Waves, you’ll discover exactly how you can get the life and the relationship of your dreams.
And I’ll be with you every step of the way, walking you through how to do this with step-by-step lessons, downloadable resources, and more
SAY HELLO TO A LIFE OF DESIRE, FULFILLMENT, AND OVERFLOWING LOVE
WORK THE WAVES is a LIVE online group experience that teaches you exactly how to heal your relationship anxiety while becoming the happiest, truest version of yourself.
Especially if you feel like you’ve lost yourself in your relationship.
Even if you think your partner is the one who needs to work on themselves.
Even if you think you can never find a solution for your relationship problems or that you’re “crazy” (trust me, you’re not!).
Even if you feel easily abandoned, or like your partner never wants to spend time together anymore.
Even if you’ve tried to fix it before (via books, other courses, or counseling) and it hasn’t worked.
Even if you’re only anxious in your relationship sometimes.
Even if you’re not currently in a relationship.
FALL IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF
Feel more confident than ever before.
Discover a new appreciation for both yourself and your partner.
And get the loving, understanding, passionate relationship you’ve been waiting for.
… with a whole lot of support along the way.
Let me ask you a question...
When was the last time you felt like your relationship was truly stable?
I don’t just mean having a few hours (or a few days) where you’re connecting with your partner. I mean when was the last time you felt as though the very foundation of the relationship was one of peace, love, and trust?
The steps that I teach in WORK THE WAVES will help you feel totally desired, prioritized, and valued WITHOUT any of your past anxieties about not being enough.
Heal your anxious attachment with life-changing results
Here are a few examples of what my past clients have achieved (some names have been changed)…
“Before Work the Waves, I was worried that I wouldn't fit in and I have been really amazed by the love and support that has come from the group. I genuinely feel like my struggles are seen and validated!
“Thanks to this program, I’ve been building my overall sense of being able to identify and meet my core needs and taking responsibility for myself.”
— Michelle
“I’ve overcome severe bouts of relationship anxiety/anxiety attacks.
“Before I started working with Danielle, I can recount having episodes where I'd wake up every night at 3am and my mind would be racing with frightening thoughts.
“Learning specific tools to identify when these episodes are occurring and techniques on reducing them such as meditation and knowledge of the issue have greatly reduced this for me.”
— Rebecca
“I decided to join Work the Waves to work on my general waviness, despite the fact that I was single and didn't have specific relationship attachment things to work on. I'm so glad I did, it was so special to work with Danielle and a wonderful group of women in different stages in their journeys.
“The program's content brought a perfect blend of practical tools and thought exercises with healing and tangible heart/body/spirit practices — there was something for everyone with an emphasis on space for individual integration and reflection with 1:1 program partners.
“I'd highly recommend this course for any women struggling with anxiety in relationships, attachment, or life in general.”
— Clare
“Work the Waves was very thorough and provided all tools necessary (and more) to combat the issues I was encountering. Danielle explains everything so well and helps you to feel comfortable to ask questions.”
— Lauren
Here's what's included in
Work the Waves
Work the Waves
Nine 90-minute modules with added video content
VALUE $1250
Each module is packed with information from a certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach. And you’ll have access to all of this material for LIFE!
9 printable worksheets
VALUE $299
For each module, you’ll receive a worksheet on the new teachings to help you integrate what you’ve learned into your daily life.
Weekly live calls with Anxious Attachment Expert, Danielle Robin and the team
VALUE $898
During these sessions, you’ll have the opportunity to ask your questions and get them answered live.
1:1 weekly support calls with another program member
VALUE $299
You’ll be paired with another woman in the group to be your new best friend, self-growth buddy, and cheerleader.
Weekly homeplay assignments
VALUE $299
These assignments will keep you integrating the material in-between modules, so that you never feel like you’re lost or left behind.
Access to the private Facebook group
VALUE $499
You’ll get constant support and connection by other people who understand exactly what you’re going through. And our expert Danielle will be in there too, answering your questions and concerns!
Total Value: $3,544
Plus these EXCLUSIVE BONUSES
Finding Safety Meditation
Use this 10 minute meditation during a wave to get to safety quickly.
VALUE $29
Grounding and Soothing Library
For anyone who isn’t experienced at getting out of their head and into their body. These are the top embodiment tools and techniques that you need to know in order to find that place of peace within yourself.
VALUE $199
TOTAL VALUE: $3822
Compiled Reading List
Featuring more than 10 of the best books out there on how attachment styles play into relationships that you can use for further reading.
VALUE $49
3 Monthly Payments
✓ 9 modules with video content and worksheets
✓ Weekly live Q&A sessions with me and the team
✓ 1:1 weekly support calls with another program member
✓ Lifetime access to the course materials
✓ “Homeplay” assigned every week to keep you integrating the material
✓ Constant support & connection through our private Facebook group
1 Payment
✓ 9 modules with video content and worksheets
✓ Weekly live Q&A sessions with me and the team
✓ 1:1 weekly support calls with another program member
✓ Lifetime access to the course materials
✓ “Homeplay” assigned every week to keep you integrating the material
✓ Constant support & connection through our private Facebook group
Enrollment open for a limited time.
7-Day Money Back Guarantee
Will this work for me?
WORK THE WAVES is designed for anyone who is on the anxious attachment spectrum who wants a happier relationship.
My past clients have healed from:
Stress and unhappiness brought on by anxious attachment
Relationship anxiety so severe it has impacted their work, friendships, and family relationships
Constantly feeling sexually or physically undesired and unwanted
Thinking they might never find a solution for their relationship problems or that they’re “crazy”
Feeling like they need to prioritize nurturing their partner over themselves
(If you’re still not sure if WORK THE WAVES will work for you, let’s connect!
You can email me at danielle@daniellerobin.com with any questions)
is an all-in-one approach where you will…
Discover how to manage anxiety waves, big and small
Finally learn how to have a balanced relationship where both you and your partner’s needs are being met
Develop new a understanding of what it means to accept and love yourself
Normalize your experience and no longer feel “alone”
Learn a toolkit to get you through an anxiety wave of any size
Have access to a community of other women who struggle with anxious attachment and know exactly how you feel
Change your relationship to love and to yourself, forever
Let’s be honest…
You know what your dream relationship looks like. Where you feel fully loved and desired by your partner. Where you live in a constant state of joy and pleasure. Where you feel complete trust and stability.
What you’ve been doing isn’t working.
It’s possible to heal your anxious attachment and have the relationship you crave. But trying to figure it out on your own is not going to get you there.
My clients have transformed their relationships into something beautiful after years of constant fighting and anxiety.
They’ve learned new communication skills that have allowed them to get their needs met — without the guilt and the anxiety.
They’ve developed new levels of confidence and self-love they never had before.
And they’ve freed up so much time and emotional energy that they used to spend worrying about their relationship!
Most importantly, they’ve transformed years of anxiety, shame, and loneliness into self-understanding, compassion, and happiness!
“Learning these practices with Danielle has transformed my life. I now have a first aid kit filled with wonderful tools that I can use when I'm experiencing Waves in every area of my life.
“Learning and using these tools, along with the support and expertise from Danielle and the group, have ultimately given me the confidence I was looking for. Danielle is warm, friendly, funny, relatable and just wonderful to work with!”
— Talia
“I had no idea how many other women were experiencing the same daily anxiety and stress around relationships I was. I'm forever grateful to Danielle and the women in our program for being so honest about these emotions and for tackling the pain head-on.
“With Danielle as our leader, I have to say we felt almost invincible. I've grown stronger with my voice and more confident in myself because of this course, and most importantly, I'm better equipped to deal with the day to day anxieties of my relationship. Even better, I can feel this confidence impacting other aspects of my life as well. Thank you, Danielle!”
— Maren
“For the first time, I see myself as an individual as opposed to an extension of my former partner.
“I’ve gained confidence and understanding that I can and will be okay on my own and it's okay to be independent instead of co-dependent.
“I have been using Danielle’s techniques like SMILE and the meditation exercises regularly. I have also really enjoyed the unravelling beliefs practice.”
— Amanda
“Danielle led me to a profound opening in my heart and helped me embrace a part of me that was looking for love and acceptance.
“I am getting teary eyed as I write this because I am so thankful to have found her. I can’t recommend her enough. Worth every minute and every penny.
“I’m still reaping the benefits and continued growth from our sessions together. Thank you Danielle! You are a light.”
— Gabriela
“I highly recommend Danielle’s work to anyone who is looking for new tools and practices to use in approaching their relationship.”
— Miranda
Enrollment is open for a limited time.
I know you’ve been telling yourself...
“Things will change when my partner starts showing up more for me.”
That’s not true!
After years of being miserable in my relationship, I’ve unlocked a failsafe approach to healing anxious attachment.
And it starts with saying YES! right now to putting yourself first and joining WORK THE WAVES.
You won’t believe how quickly you will be able to change your relationship to love and to yourself!
WORK THE WAVES
Or with the easy monthly payment plan
7-Day Money Back Guarantee
100% Risk Free
You already know that your current strategy isn’t working…
Are you brave enough to change your relationship story?
In just a few minutes you could be on your way to having:
✓ A loving, understanding, balanced relationship where both you and your partner’s needs are being met and you feel like you can fully show up as yourself in your relationship
✓ A tried-and-true toolkit to get you through an anxiety wave of any size
✓ A new understanding of attachment styles — without the shame, blame, and stress
✓ Your own community of supportive women who will make you feel fully understood, supported, and loved on your journey to heal your relationship anxiety
This work has already changed the lives of hundreds of people…
“I used to believe I was useless and that there was something severely wrong with me. I believe I'd never find a resolution for how I was with my insecurities - I felt 'crazy.' I have shifted to a woman of 100% more understanding and compassion for myself.
“This program was one of the best things I've ever done because I am beginning to finally accept and love myself."
— Lucy
“I didn't know that this was something within me, but I used to think it was a partner's responsibility to soothe the aches and to make me feel accepted. I didn't come home to my inner loneliness before, and I see it more clearly now.
“Now, I feel more grounded on a day-to-day basis, and able to identify what I need in a given moment, not take it too seriously, and come back to the moment itself.”
— Amara
Includes
9 modules with video content and worksheets
Weekly live Q&A sessions with me and the team
1:1 weekly support calls with another program member
Lifetime access to the course materials
“Homeplay” assigned every week to keep you integrating the material
Constant support & connection through our private Facebook group
You could be starting the next step of your healing journey in minutes!
3 monthly payments
✓ 9 modules with video content and worksheets
✓ Weekly live Q&A sessions with me and the teams
✓ 1:1 weekly support calls with another program member
✓ Lifetime access to the course materials
✓ “Homeplay” assigned every week to keep you integrating the material
✓ Constant support & connection through our private Facebook group
1 payment
✓ 9 modules with video content and worksheets
✓ Weekly live Q&A sessions with me and the team
✓ 1:1 weekly support calls with another program member
✓ Lifetime access to the course materials
✓ “Homeplay” assigned every week to keep you integrating the material
✓ Constant support & connection through our private Facebook group
Enrollment open for a limited time.
7-day money back guarantee
Hi! I’m Danielle Robin.
I’ve been where you are today.
Only a few of years ago, I thought my life would be over if my relationship ended.
I spent days on the floor of my apartment, unable to eat, work, or show up for friends. No matter what happened in my relationship, we didn’t seem able to move past the cycle of being anxious or just “okay” that we were stuck in.
I’ll never forget how painful it was to feel like my relationship was always spinning out of control, no matter how hard I tried to save it.
Waiting for my partner to change, or expecting him to show up in the exact way I needed him, wasn’t working. (Trust me, I tried!)
I knew that if I wanted things to change, I had to be the catalyst.
This really sunk in when I finally realized that relationship anxiety goes way deeper than just the current relationship you’re in. And it can only be healed or changed by understanding the root and creating a new way of approaching the situation.
So when I finally decided that it was time to master the Waves of relationship anxiety…
I did it because I knew the problem wouldn’t go away until I started doing the work. And I was ready to have my life back.
For nearly 3 years, I used my background as a student of psychology, my Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy, and my certification as a Sex, Love & Relationship Coach to figure out exactly what I needed to do to heal those core wounds that caused my anxious attachment.
And now? I’ve never felt so loved, safe, and desired.
The foundation of my relationship is one of peace, pleasure, and stability. We even got engaged last year and are currently planning our dream wedding!
When challenges do arise, I approach them with a toolbox full of understanding of my partner, knowledge about the best way to communicate, and a deep sense of self that allows me to get my needs met.
My healing journey inspired me to dedicate my life to helping other women achieve the same results.
is the only online program specifically designed to help you heal your anxious attachment.
It’s a complete system, broken up into 12 weeks, that has already helped me and hundreds of other women feel fully seen and heard in their relationships. And it’s available to you NOW for a limited time.
I will walk you through every single step of my proven approach to redefining your relationship to love and to yourself, forever.
All you have to do is show up ready to look at the patterns that have been holding you back and say “YES!” to a new way forward.
WORK THE WAVES is your bridge to a new way of loving yourself and others.
Are you ready to make a commitment to yourself to look inside and choose the path of breaking free?
All you have to do is apply the program — watch the modules, get on the group coaching calls, post in the Facebook group, ask a question on the Q&A call — and you’ll get life-changing results.
Of course, if you join & realize that it is not for you, you may request a refund by emailing danielle@daniellerobin.com within 7 days of purchase.
So, if you’re not 100% sure that you’re ready for a huge transformation in your life and you’re not ready to commit yourself to doing this work, then this may not be the program for you.
Change comes only to those who welcome it into their lives.
Questions Women Ask Before Joining Work the Waves
+ Q: How do I know if this program is right for me?
This program is for anyone who experiences anxious waves — even if the waves are small or they only happen every so often. Whether you spend days unable to get anything done because of overwhelming anxiety around your relationship, or you only have relationship anxiety pop up from time to time, the tools you will gain from this program will completely transform your life for the better. Having these tools in your back pocket can help you in your communication and relationship overall.
+ Q: How long is the course?
Work the Waves is a 12 week program. Each week, you'll gain access to incredible videos and content on the private course platform. There will be live weekly Q&As for you to get your questions answered and get live support. You’ll also have weekly 1:1 support calls with a partner (aka your new best friend) and constant support through our private Facebook page.
+ Q: Will I have access to Danielle?
Yes! You will be able to ask Danielle questions directly in the Q&A sessions bi-monthly. She will also be active in the private Facebook group.
+ Q: How long will it take to see results?
Everyone's healing journey is different, but taking a big step like joining WORK THE WAVES can help you break out of old patterns in a matter of weeks. Most of my past clients have reported developing a new sense of self and improved confidence by week 2 or 3, and seeing the dynamic shift in their relationship around week 6 or 7.
+ Q: What if I’m not in a relationship right now?
Yes! If you’re single or just went through a breakup, now is the perfect time to join Work the Waves. I’ve had many past clients who were newly out of relationships (or whose relationships ended during this course), and they found the tools to be extremely beneficial for themselves, and especially when they started dating again.
Regardless of your relationship status, if you have anxious attachment, this course is for you. Even if you’re single.
If you don’t do the deep inner work to heal your core wounds, they will keep showing up again and again in your future relationships.
+ Q: Is this course only for women?
Yes, WORK THE WAVES is for anyone who identifies as a woman.
+ Q: What if I’m LGBTQ+?
I’m here to support you :) Regardless of your partner’s gender, if you identify as a woman & experience relationship anxiety then this program is for you!
+ Q: What if I’m poly or not in a traditionally structured relationship?
You’re in good company! Over the years in Work the Waves, I’ve had several clients in poly or otherwise non-traditional relationship structures. All of my clients have individual experiences and lifestyles, and Work the Waves is a safe space where I can help you through your relationship anxiety no matter what style relationship you have.
+ Q: What if I can’t make the live calls?
You will have access to replays of all the live calls for life.
+ Q: What if I don’t have the time right now?
Do you have the time to continue feeling miserable due to relationship anxiety? When I struggled with my waves, I would lay on the floor of my apartment for hours, unable to get anything done. I couldn’t focus on my friends or my job. My anxiety was a huge time suck.
My relationship was one of the most important things in my life, so I decided to squeeze in this self-work, even though it felt like a lot with my busy schedule. And do you know what happened? I actually had more time in the day and a better ability to focus because I didn’t spend time feeling so anxious I couldn’t get anything done!
+ Q: What if I don’t have the money right now?
You can’t put a price tag on feeling confident in yourself and fulfilled in your life! Seriously, you will save money (not to mention time and emotional energy) when you join this course because you won’t be spending money on other self-help books and courses that don’t really work because they never get to the root of the problem. And you’ll have something that money can’t buy: an unshakeable sense of self and the relationship of your dreams!
+ Q: What if my partner isn’t doing this work too? Will anything change?
We should all be taking steps to heal our inner wounds so that we can live happy, fulfilling lives. But the only person you can control is yourself. So if you’re struggling with relationship anxiety, the best thing you can do is start working on yourself now. By week 6 of my program, our community usually starts reporting that their relationship dynamics are starting to shift for the better!
Anxiously attached people often think that if only their partner would do better, they wouldn’t have relationship problems. The truth is, both partners contribute to relationship dynamics, and healing your inner wounds around anxious attachment can drastically shift the relationship into a happier, healthier, stable place.
+ Q: Can I work with Danielle one-on-one?
Yes! And you even get a discounted one-on-one rate when you join Work the Waves! Click here to schedule a free consultation.
+ Q: What is the 7-day cancellation policy?
When you join Work the Waves, you have 7 days to experience the program and you can cancel within that period, up until 11:59pm EST on January 30th.
+ Q: What if I'm anxious and avoidant?
This program is absolutely for you! Many women who join Work the Waves experience both attachment styles depending on the situation. The work we do in the program will actually help with being a Wave (anxiety) and an Island (avoidance).
How Work the Waves changed these women’s lives forever…
I know you’ve been telling yourself that you just need to try harder to save the relationship, but the truth is…
THAT NEVER WORKS.
What works is healing your deep core wounds, with access to an expert who’s been there before and an incredible community (NOT your partner) to turn to for support.
What works is having a tried-and-true, structured program with reminders for you to do the work, feeling seen and understood by others who are following your story, and finally standing up for yourself to claim the life you deserve.
What works is WORK THE WAVES.
I can’t wait to hear more about your breakthroughs in WORK THE WAVES, so get in there already!
Enrollment is open for a limited time.
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