and so are our relationships, requiring consistent nurturing and care. Relationships are not complete upon arrival, rather, the arrival of a relationship is an invitation into the journey.
Your clarity is your compass. Tuning in to your desires, blockages and intentions will reveal what you want, what you need, where you want to go, and where you’d rather not.
The harmony of self and relational work is both an infinity loop and an accelerator. Working on the greater relationship entity will create more inner transformation, and working on the self will create more relationship transformation. The two are intrinsically linked.
Humans are social beings. We were born in relationship, we developed in relationship, we were wounded in relationship, and our greatest healing happens is in relationship, if you allow it to.
We will walk through deep assessments to understand your true intentions and desires for your life as an individual and your relationship as a couple. Using techniques designed to bridge the cortical, limbic and primal levels of the brain, we will break through to your “inner world” and understand what aspirations lie beneath the surface.
We will then explore and reveal the source: habitual patterns and conditioning that have blocked you from getting exactly what you want.
In order to create an energetic foundation that feels safe and loving, you will learn how to balance meeting your needs while also focusing on meeting your partners’.
This is how the relationship will begin to take on a new shape.
Through in-depth connection and communication practices, you will become co-creators and supporters of each others’ transformation and healing.
To witness the process in each other as well as experience it firsthand creates an evolution of safety, trust, and true understanding.
The relationship will grow stronger as each partner steps into a new energy of thriving and the learned tools are integrated into your daily life.
We will begin to introduce more advanced techniques, including breathwork and tantric practices.
Hi, I’m Danielle.
I’m here to help you create the relationship you want, and in doing so, create a pathway to deep healing, spiritual connection, and unparalleled expansion.
Even as a little girl, I dreamt of being a couples therapist when others wanted to be scientists or dancers. After receiving my B.A. in Psychology from Barnard College, I wanted to understand all possibilities for what being in a relationship could mean. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity, my personal life has served as the most powerful education money couldn't buy.
I became a full blown Relationship Anthropologist, and personally explored the entire spectrum of open and closed relationships, only to discover spiritual sexuality and conscious partnership. This incredible journey inspired me to dedicate my life to this work.
I pursued a Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy and studied all the top methodologies for couples therapy. Years of energy work and spiritual healing led me to Layla Martin’s Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality, where I found total professional alignment and graduated as a certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach. Through this certification, a blend of psychology and tantric modalities, I learned to bridge the worlds of information and transformation. I am now a member of her team and a mentor for her students.
My coaching work is entirely a reflection of my journey. From a place of total acceptance and expansion, I help couples come together in connected, conscious union. I will not settle for the popular cultural belief that long term partnership means stagnation- there is always a door to open and I know how to find that door. I seek true symbiosis for my clients, regardless of their relationship structure.
“One of us is also a coach, so we have a good eye for quality. She is such a great listener and provides clear frameworks and exercises that help us go deeper, explore, and have breakthroughs. We really couldn't be more happy to be working with her. We see the impacts on our relationship each day. That's priceless.”
- MANDY & ERIC, SAN FRANCISCO
— LAURA, NEW YORK
“…but she also challenges us to explore how we can better serve one another. Our previous experience with traditional couples counseling did not offer us the skills or exercises needed to actually enact solutions. Danielle does.”
- JON & CORI, SAN DIEGO
