My Journey

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My friends would describe me as someone who has explored a very real chunk of the partnership spectrum. And I'm not talking about dabbling—I'm talking about becoming a full blown Relationship Anthropologist without even trying. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity, my personal life has served as the most powerful education money couldn't buy.

Marriage — check
Divorce — check
Polyamory — check
Monogamy — check

Creating a sex party event series in NYC and graduating from the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality...yep.

As a little girl, I dreamt of being a therapist when others wanted to be scientists or dancers.

After receiving my B.A. in Psychology from Barnard College, I wanted to understand all possibilities for what being in a relationship could mean. I tried being open and closed, married and polyamorous, a swinger and monogamish, and only after all of that, I entered into spiritual sexuality and conscious partnership. This whirlwind journey inspired me to dedicate my life to this work.

I pursued a Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy and studied all the top methodologies for couples therapy. Through years of energy work and spiritual healing, I realized that my true educational path, and my life’s work, lies in the conscious and not the conventional.

This clarity brought me to Layla Martin’s Tantric Institute, where I graduated as a certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach. Through this professional certification, a blend of psychology and tantric modalities, I learned to bridge the worlds of information and transformation. I was recently selected to join her team as a mentor for future students.  

My coaching work is entirely a reflection of my journey. From a place of total acceptance and expansion, I help couples come together in connected, conscious union. I will not settle for the status quo of what the world thinks is acceptable in romantic relationships. I seek true symbiosis for my clients, regardless of their relationship structure.

I’m here to help you create the relationship you want, and in doing so, create a pathway to deep healing, spiritual connection, and unparalleled expansion.